How to Train for a Triathlon When You Hate Exercise

I’m 30 days into training for a Triathlon, and I will tell you why.

It’s not impossible to go from no physical activity to training for a Triathlon or a Marathon or a Century (100 miles.) It isn’t a secret. It’s what you do every day of your life:

The power of change sleeps in your habits and awakens when you make the decision to change.

Over the last 4 years I’ve been reading every book I can get my hands on. I’ve learned about craft beer, about dating beautiful women, sales, running, muscle building, nutrition,   internet marketing, autobiographies, meditation and much more.

And I’ve actually dated beautiful women, sold door-to-door, learned techniques to make my learning faster and efficient, ran 10 miles, built muscle, etc.

Reading so much (and taking drastic risks) have taught me the true value of decision.

You make or break your foundation based on what you choose to do daily. You are your thoughts and actions manifested.

Beginner Triathlete Gear

  • A solid bike and helmet, nutrition supplements, sports drinks, a trainer (for bike), good shoes, a whistle, HR monitor.
  • Goggles, swimming lessons, wet-suit (if cold water)
  • Running shoes, windbreaker, sunglasses
  • Lots of good food

You can also spend thousands on other gadgets that are cool to have but not yet essential, but why the heck would you do that?

I will, in future articles, show you how I am doing this on a stable budget. You won’t break the bank, but you’ll bank your breaks. I’ll explain later.

Training like a Turtle (A Badass Turtle though)

Ever been asked the idiom, “how do you eat an Elephant?”

I say it all the time and confuse the shit out of people. And that’s okay.

“One bite at a time.”

If you tweak 1 small thing every 30 days (ideally), then you can become almost anything.

That’s how I’ve learned it- based on what I have read and the relatively small changes that build up to bigger changes in my own personal and public life.

The First 30 Days

I use the time-span of 20 days as an example of how I’ve been doing this. Keep in mind I have been consciously working on my habits every day for the last 4 years.

For the person that has tried to exercise before and failed, listen up:

Change one small habit every 30 days. The first change I made for about 30 days was very simple…

I started doing push-ups at home as soon as I thought about it. And I did it. Then- automatically and without pushing myself or straining- I decided to start doing door-frame-pull-ups since I have no pull up bar. Then I did other calisthenic and plyometric exercises.

This is called the absolute threshold: the smallest detectable level of a stimulus.

  • In fitness, it’s that point where you are willing to exercise and actually stimulate muscle growth, weight loss, etc.
  • In socializing and dating, it’s that slight discomfort you get used to and then add to overtime to become charismatic and confident.
  • In habit-building, it’s those 20 minutes of learning Photoshop, Photography, nutrition, etc.
Conscious daily creation is the recipe for success. 

You wouldn’t guess it but I’m one of the laziest people I know– despite reading every day, training daily, changing my habits, taking big risks and always learning– I much prefer to accumulate easy tasks that create massive progress.

In triathlon training, the absolute threshold can be to:

Do only push-ups and change nothing else for 30 days. 

[Notice I bolded, underlined AND italicized that line. Read it 7 more times.]

Only way to eat an Elephant.

Observe how your body reacts during those 30 days. I noticed bruising would occur in the muscles I worked out, so I started to eat more. That made a HUGE difference.

If you eat well and don’t over-train which is almost-impossible in the first 30 days, unless you have horrible form. Learn form.

Do every exercise at a 4/4 cadence: meaning you count 1-one-thousand, 2-one-thousand, 3-one-thousand, 4-one-thousand during the top push-up position to the bottom position (nose near the ground.) Always hold for a second before moving back up.

[another tip: if you already have a habit of reading everyday, then go ahead and pick up a book on nutrition- compare Amazon reviews, get the popular 5 star one(s)]

The next 30 days

Now you think about exercise everyday. You are more aware of what you eat. You see yourself in a new light.

Exercising is starting to make you high and happy. What’s next? Time to learn techniques.

Not speed. Not power-endurance. Technique:

  • Running form, swimming technique, bike form.

 -more COMING SOON-

Focus on living in the moment as you train your body and mind. 

“Flow in the living moment. — We are always in a process of becoming and nothing is fixed. Have no rigid system in you, and you’ll be flexible to change with the ever changing. Open yourself and flow, my friend. Flow in the total openness of the living moment. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. Moving, be like water. Still, be like a mirror. Respond like an echo.” – Bruce Lee

 

 

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What is an Alpha Male?

You don’t have to believe me, but I’m telling you the truth.

It’s not “just” coming from me, I’ve also learned these secrets from friends that are true Alpha Males- guys that live with a silent sense of confidence and a life that’s constantly remarkable.

Let’s not get ahead of ourselves though, I want to make sure we are clear on the definition. It’s not what you think. An alpha male is not a dirtbag, manipulative pick up guy, or the guy that gets all the girls. That’s such pea-sized thinking.

An alpha male is his own man. He can sit anywhere and be at home. In fact, even when he is uncomfortable, he is comfortable.

Wherever you stand, be the soul of that place- Rumi

I recently became an Alpha Male. Yea, I know “it’s pretentious to say that.” Stop reading if you don’t want to keep reading.

I noticed it happened at the point where I decided that my happiness is up to me; it’s not transient and it is based on this moment. And this one.

And this one too.

Every time you breathe you decide who you are going to be.

Jay Z is an alpha male. So is Lebron James. Steve Jobs was definitely one. Russel Simmons, Bill Clinton, Emerson, Andrew Carnegie? Yup. All alpha males.

But why? What makes them that way? They all have things in common.

What an Alpha Male Isn’t

  1. Someone that preys on the lack of consciousness in others: A bully. A victimizer. A  manipulator. A charlatan. (also known as an insecure bastard.)
  2. Someone that doesn’t need anyone.
  3. A person that looks at women like numbers.
  4. A dude that is Reckless for the sake of being reckless.
  5. A chameleon that is constantly changing to receive comfortable approval.

What an Alpha Male Is

  1. At peace wherever he is and doing anything. There is little or no attachment on the final outcome of things because an alpha male is happy regardless. You will never find a peace more powerful than your own. Meditate on it.
  2. The type that needs people, but not in a needy way. He needs people because he is filled with love and joy at the action and thought of giving to people. Bathing them with love. Loving people so much for who they are that they want to be constantly around that love.
  3. In love with his opposite polarity (whether it’s Feminine energy or Masculine energy). Dating and seduction becomes a thing of beauty, not a stressful game to play, consisting of constant headaches and pain. Dating different people is not about notches on his belt, it’s about experience. It’s about making someone happy by being unique. It’s about finding her beauty and holding it close.
  4. A calculated risk taker. An alpha male does not wait for opportunity. He is ready. He seeks it in whatever form that he values. And he doesn’t stop even after he gets it.
  5. An alpha male is consistently inconsistent. Consistently growing and changing because he wants to, not because he needs to. He seeks TO love, not to be loved.

All of the previous characteristics can be defined in one line.

It’s up to you to follow it.

I believe in you. I want you to have that joy that comes with existing. Honest.

Oh yea! I almost forgot that one line.

It’s…

…this:

An alpha male is happy existing from a constant point of awareness of the fact that he is happy as soon as he decides to be.

Decide today.

-Juda

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Can You Live (Happily) Off 20 Dollars a Day in NYC?- PART 1

My conscience says I should warn you about this article.

Don’t read passed this line if you’re looking for an easy, comfortable way to live off 20 dollars a day. This article is only for you if:

  • You want to backpack anywhere, including New York City.
  • You are looking to save some serious cash.
  • You are very disciplined or want to be.
  • You live for personal growth and adventure.

Thanks, Chief.

Now that we’ve got that out of the way…

How to Live Cheaply in New York City

I’ve been in New York now for close to 3 months.

Me. Living cheaply. Happy. #winning

I’ve learned a lot about the city and my Self. The journey here started as what I thought would be a 30 day trial to land a job with an agency that I could truly love and pour myself into (click to read about couchsurfing New York City and what it’s like to be homeless.)

The adventures I’ve had, people I’ve met, and peace that I’ve found has been more than worth 3 months of occasional discomfort.

It is, however, crucial that if you decide to experience something like this, plan accordingly, especially in New York.

New York is one of the 10 cities with the highest cost of living, so you’re going to need a very strong reason to be here. You need a burning “why.” Get your why set in stone. Write it down. Say it daily (whatever your goals are.) Burn it into your will power and soul.

This won’t be easy.

You’ll also need a game plan.

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs

What good is it to live frugally if you are unhappy?

Meditation has taught me that mankind can, as Viktor Frankl put it, “make a heaven out of hell or a hell out of heaven.”

I include Maslow’s pyramid because living frugally is about using money in the most efficient way possible; it’s not about having a tight butt and loving the way pennies feel between your cheeks. Keep in mind: you could make 100 thousand dollars this year and be just as miserable as someone making $20,000 a year. Disregard it if you’d like, but basing your life on Maslow’s pyramid, and counting your blessings based on what you have, will make you better.

Maslow’s Hierarchy; with a Social Media Twist

Appreciate what you have now, starting with shelter, food, and water.

Cheap Rent in New York City

Are you the type that burns through money like cigarettes? Maybe you’re not. Regardless, would you like to save an extra- oh I don’t know-700 dollars in rent while you’re on vacation?

Couchsurfing

Use Couchsurfing.org

With approximately 1 million active members, you’re likely to find a couch to crash on.

Couch surfing isn’t just a means of accommodation; it is an entirely new way to travel. You get to see the world through local residents, not hotel concierges or guidebooks. But what is most profound about the whole experience is the trust. -Time

Best of all — it’s completely, utterly, gynecologically FREE.

If you don’t have friends where you are traveling to, then take advantage of this amazing tool. I have friends that have stayed in Asia, Central America, and in the US through this awesome resource.

Slam, bam, thank you Betty White… you just saved 700 dollars or more on rent. Obviously,  plan and message hosts before you set out on your expedition.

(Bonus: if someone cancels last minute, an alternative to a hotel is to book through Airbnb. It’s way cheaper than a hotel.)

Next alternative after those two? I’d say either prostitution or sleeping in the park.

Don’t judge.

A gentleman doesn’t sleep around and then run off and tell everyone about it.

How to Eat for Cheap in New York City

New York is pricey, but the food doesn’t have to be.

Chicken over rice. Honestly, I think it’s delicious.

The resources I’ve used most during my first two months in NYC are the food trucks. They are everywhere, and delicious. 5 dollars for enough food to eat two or three meals: chicken and rice, world-famous hot dogs, chocolate muffins, crack-cocaine-coffee, and more. You can spend 10 dollars a day on food, if you plan meticulously.

You can even eat better if you shop for it. I’m not going to tell you how to shop. You are more than able to take care of that one.

Sick of food trucks?

  • Eat at 2 Bros pizza or any of those other 1 dollar pizza joints.
  • Have a thick, smoky breakfast sandwich for 3.50 at almost any bodega (corner store.)
  • Get it right, get it tight at Subway (2 meals in one for 5 dollars.)

(Bonus: use apps. I highly recommend “Urban Spoon.” It’s one of the best ways to find cheap restaurants, or new restaurants, for dates and adventures. You can categorize by price, location, or genre of food.)

Now that We’ve Covered the Basics

You don’t want to spend your time unhappy, do you? As growing human beings, we must also focus on that which brings us joy!

  • Making new friends and being a positive influence for them.
  • Finding peace within ourselves and self-respect.
  • Sexual Intimacy
  • Creativity, self-expression, problem solving, etc.

Through years spent struggling to be at peace, I’ve learned that you can’t have the above if you have an unstable base to your pyramid. It’s not easy, but it’s worth every new habit and inch of progress that you will make.

The pain of regret is far worse than the pain of discipline.

I will be writing more about these higher needs as I experience growth on my journey and as I make more time to write articles. [PART 2 is coming right up.]

At this point, I’ve acclimated to New York, Atlanta, Tallahassee, Palm Beach, and areas of Central America. I’ve moved, made awesome friends, dated different types of girls, and…well- I’m having a blast! I think you should be too.

I’ll show you how to make friends in a new city and also how to cultivate a positive attitude.

Soon…

Most of it will be in PART 2, feel free to subscribe, follow me on Twitter, or wait for me to hit you up on your pager. Trust.

Remember:

Never give up. You are just a few habits away from being a better man or woman. Nothing can stop you except procrastination and chosen-ignorance.

The remedy for failure is consciousness.

On Being Happy and Cheap

It’s within your grasp. Save money. Have fun. Grow as a person. Make new relationships. Have your inner peace.

I’m hard-pressed to come up with any other ingredients for a happy life. If I’m missing something or you want to add to it, feel free to do so in the comments. We are all on this journey. Let’s do it together.

-Juda A. Borrayo

“For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.” -Emerson

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How to Live Cheaply in New York City

I feel like this guy (Chris Gardner.)

My butt itches. It is in a strategically unwise location: in between two unfriendly plastic barriers that prevent me from drifting off. I don’t like it!!

But enough crying (see the play on words? Oh yes, I know…genius)

I’m “sleeping” on a train. I’ve been backpacking in New York City for the last 30 days. And, at times, I’ve found myself without a place to stay. Partially because I haven’t made it back to whatever random couch I’m staying at. Largely because it’s just the way things worked out.

It’s tough. To be honest, not knowing where I will sleep goes on my list of the top 3 most difficult challenges of my life (up there with losing someone I fell in love with and cold calling).

This Adventure is Bananas

I’ve learned a few things over the last 30 days; lessons I wouldn’t have come close to really understanding before going “homeless.”

  1. Gringos eat too much.
  2. We are all 2 or 3 bad decisions away from being homeless.
  3. Whatever the price the American dream might be, pay it.

American’s Eat Too Much

Did you know that the average United States Citizen eats about 2700 calories a day (a number that has increased 25 % since 1970.)

In “Energy Expenditure of Walking and Running,” published last December in Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, a group of Syracuse University researchers measured the actual calorie burn of 12 men and 12 women while running and walking 1,600 meters (roughly a mile) on a treadmill. Result: The men burned an average of 124 calories while running, and just 88 while walking; the women burned 105 and 74. (The men burned more than the women because they weighed more.) ¹

The fact that we are actually less active than we were back then puts even more sugary icing on the cake. How many times have you broken a sweat in the last 7 days? [Nerves about the next American Idol audition don't count.]

Over the last 30 days I have eaten at least 2 meals a day, but no more than 3. I’m experimenting with Leangains, an intermittent fasting way of eating. I only eat between 12-8 or 1-9. I follow a 16 hour fast and 8 hour window of eating.The logic behind it is that our bodies are not built for excessive eating. We come from hunter gatherers that did’nt have a Panera or Starbucks at every corner. So, that’s why I’m not eating breakfast.

And it cost a lot less rupees to only eat within a certain window of time- when backpacking on a budget, this is a HUGE deal.

I’ll have before and after pictures (non-nudes, of course…those are for the premium…jk) and a more detailed post or two about it after the 30 days are up.

We are Two or Three Bad Decisions Away From Being Homeless

Ever heard people say any of the following?

  • “Ugh. I can’t believe that guy doesn’t just get a job”
  • “Homeless people are disgusting.”
  • “ She must be a crackhead.”

I’m serious. I’ve heard those three verbatim. The other day- when I had to sleep at a McDonalds- I walked around and was struck with a steel hammer of logic: If I didn’t have my family to provide 20 dollars a day for me right now, I would literally be homeless. Society doesn’t care how much potential you have if you aren’t paying your bills.

I wouldn’t be able to just run back to mom and dad if I suddenly developed pneumonia. The cold cement floor and I would have to become intimate friends! All it takes is eviction, being fired from a job, quitting spontaneously, or a DUI mixed with more bad decisions.

Appreciate shelter. Appreciate a home with AC. A bed. A kitchen. A family. You never know when they could disappear.

But don’t play it safe either. Learn how to take calculated risks. If you’re not living on the edge, than you’re taking up too much space.

Whatever the Price for Success is, Pay It

Decide what you want out of life and don’t stop until you get it. I’m in New York for a reason. I’m on this blog because I know writing, learning, helping others, and doing awesome stuff really get my heart pumping.

Chase your dream until you catch it, then never let it go. If you doubt your ability to achieve, than surround yourself with people that believe in you.

I’ve noticed that all the successful people in the world will tell you that you can accomplish anything you want in life, so long as you are willing to pay the price it takes. Ask someone that gave up on being an actor, an astronaut, a millionaire, or [insert extravagant role that takes a lot of luck and gut-wrenching-work]…want to know what they will tell you?

“It was too hard, “I had to be realistic, “I wasn’t born to the right family,” “I didn’t have connections.” Blah…blah…blah…

Don’t listen to them. Listen to Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, well known Actor, Model, Millionaire, and former Wrestler (successful, don’t you think?)

He tweeted this recently:

In 1995 I had $7 bucks in my pocket and I knew two things: I’m broke as hell and one day I won’t be. You can achieve anything.

I believe it. Do you? Hopefully, if you’re going through a tough time, my story (or even just that one quote) will help you keep pushing.

Get out there and get what is yours.

-Juda

P.S. I’ll be writing a post soon on some Do’s and Don’ts of surfing on couches in NYC. What kind? Would you like to know how to live on only 20 dollars a day? How about how to leave couches in good graces (so they invite you back!). Where to eat for cheap. And more.

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Backpacking in NYC/Looking for Digital Agency Work

Two weeks ago I bought a one-way ticket to New York City. I had 300 dollars in my bank account. I now have 100 dollars.

I sit in a Starbucks, in Chelsea, listening to Kings of Leon tracks and smiling because of how amazingly random choices can lead to incredible memories. And why the heck not? Why shouldn’t you stop doing what you loathe and do what you love?

“There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other.”

Me- I love to write: especially the way words paint pictures, strengthen (or weaken) relationships, build (or collapse) empires, and influence just about everything else.

Failure is Hard

I know, I know…that was a mind-blowing-absolutely-state-changing-sub-heading. The point?

I have failed many times in life; in fact, I failed over 800 times a month when I used to sell Telecom. It sucks. It hurts. Even as I type this, I still have the sour taste in my mouth that comes from being told, “we don’t accept walk-ins.”

Really? Really? You have a sales force that sells door to door. I want to write for you. You don’t accept walk’ins? I just walked for 2 hours, in 98 degree weather, looking for an opprotunity to introduce myself to you, so we can make greatness together.

Oh yea, but you don’t take walk ins…

Whoa…

Oh well. It is frustrating to fail, but it will be even sweeter when I succeed. Did you know:

  • Henry Ford went broke (broke!) 5 times before he succeded.
  • Colonel Sanders, of KFC fame, was rejected 1009 times before his “original” recipe was accepted.
  • Walt Disney was fired by an editor because the Editor felt Disney lacked Imagination. And then he went on to start other businesses until he went bankrupt before he found the winning recipe.
  • Issac Newton failed as a farmer.
  • Oprah was fired from her job as a Producer because she was “unfit for t.v.”
  • J.K. Rowling, author of Harry Potter, went from being a peniless, depressed, divorced woman trying to take care of a child to someone that is seeped in money, fame, and success.

Click here for more failures that have been very successfull: failing is part of success.

How I’ve Survived Two Weeks in New York City

I came up here with one solid idea in mind: I’m going to work at a Digital Agency that values creativity, words, and engagement even more than I ever have. You are the average of the people you sorround yourself with. I want to be around creatives, marketers, directors, entrepreneurs, and thinkers- because I want to be every single one of those things. Every single day of my life.

So, I sold my guitar amplifier and stepped off a plane with 300 dollars in my bank account. And I have ZERO regret. Zero.

I will say this though: couch surfing and backpacking in New York City is a completely different experience from backpacking through Central America. But there are still lots of parallels.

  • Couches have become my beds
  • Trains and buses have taken place of my car
  • And I’m living on my wits and charm

Best way to stay alive? Eat very little. Smile a lot. And cold call businesses for jobs like it’s my hobby.

This is just a post to let you all know I’m still alive and kicking. Hard. I’ll write a comphrehensive one when I’m here for 30 days.

I’m also currently experimenting with the LeanGains Fasting-diet for the 30 days up here; since it will be easier (and less expensive) to live off of eating only from 1-9. Part of what I’m doing is only eating during an 8 hour window. Tune in for more.

So, until next time, my friends.

Choose excellence.

-Juda

P.S. Don’t get me wrong though: I’ve had some awesome times and successes too…I’ll tell you about them later. Gotta catch the train!

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How to Meditate (a 30 Day Trial)

I used to come home after a tough day and just mentally break down in my room. I used to think life was a constant roller-coaster of happiness and pain; fear and love. And then I started meditating.

My life took a detour after an unexpected break up and move. I’m sharing this with you because I think almost everyone has had some bad days, or months, or years. I believe, the best thing you can do is to start meditating today.

It changed my life. I know it can change yours. I’ve seen it transform others.

When it comes to meditation, a lot of people have pre-conceived notions that are as off putting as the idea of George W. Bush in a banana hammock. Here is what I mean:

No amount of meditation will ever take away this memory.

Crystal clear? Moving on….

Why Should I Meditate?

The best-BEST-habit you can possibly develop in the next 30 days is the ability to find refuge inside your own mind. Inside your skull lives a breathing being with the potential to be either a Michelangelo or a mentally-dormant-malnourished-Mr. Bean. The key to being successful at anything- riches, love, or creation- is to be able to focus your thoughts on one thing at a time, and to dig so deep into it that you discover something new. You don’t have to believe me. Just listen to the man considered the father of modern success literature.

All action begins with thought.

All the breaks you need in life wait within your imagination, Imagination is the workshop of your mind, capable of turning mind energy into accomplishment and wealth.- Napoleon Hill

Meditation will empower you to turn down the thoughts that bring you fear and increase the volume of the successful part of your personality. It will also empower you to:
  • Follow your intuition
  • Harness your imagination
  • Create a more dynamic personality
  • Decrease anxiety and increase peace
  • Improve self-esteem and confidence
  • Re-learn skills you didn’t know you had
  • Overcome fear
  • Realistically visualize what you want to achieve
  • Materialize the things you want
  • and more…

What You Will Need to Meditate

  1. You.

How to Meditate: A 30 day Program

I want to make this as small of a barrier to entry as possible. So, lets break this down:

***Note: Keep in mind these are guidelines. Meditation is up to you. I highly suggest following this “progression” so you don’t get overwhelmed, but perhaps you can handle highly advanced meditation. I don’t have a clue. I am not you. Do what feels right. Also, keep in mind that these are overlapping experiences- one day you will be practicing contemplative meditation and the next day you will be visualizing. There is no B to C formula.

Phase 1: Observing Your Own Thought Through Meditation

So why should you meditate? It’s really quite simple- you want to be more than what you currently think you can be. Go ahead and deny it if you want. Wash, rinse, repeat- deep down in your most intuitive part, you know I’m saying the truth. In order to reach a whole new level of being, you must learn to control the thoughts that have been controlling you.

The first step is awareness. Phase 1 is about becoming aware that you have so many thoughts coming up in your mind. That is it. Phase 1 is not about changing; it’s not about molding beliefs and overcoming obstacles- it is about awareness.

Yet, that is not synonymous with you coming to a point where you completely understand everything and know all. Stop doing that. You won’t be there yet; not likely at least.

Watch this:

Phase 2: Settling the Waters

“Settling the waters “means to look and observe thought to the point where you say to yourself: “Self, THIS IS ( it isn’t bad nor is it good. It just is). Things are only good or bad based on our perception of them.

STOP and really chew this over: what would you do if you lost everything? No home. No car. No family. No friends. No lover. No viability to your dreams. No freedom. No food. No real shelter. No real escape. ZERO likelihood to get any of those things back.

Would you smile and help everyone around you? Would you become a beacon of hope?

Viktor Frankl did:

“The one thing you can’t take away from me is the way I choose to respond to what you do to me. The last of one’s freedoms is to choose ones attitude in any given circumstance.”

Viktor Frankl is a concentration camp survivor that wrote one of the most poignant books ever written on the value of conscious thought. Read his book and your understanding of the last few statements will be brighter than a Japanese boy-genius. His book will take you less than 2 hours to read.

Phase 3: Visualizing

Grab a piece of paper. Write down the words, “what is vision?” Write down at least 10 answers. Go ahead. I know, for me, the answer came out to something along the lines of being able to see what you want/expect to be a reality in the future; based on the actions occurring now- despite not being able to see it in front of you.

Part of visualizing is to place yourself in a different place in time. You know, if you’ve been observing your thoughts, that you will be incredibly successful (don’t you?)– so it is just a matter of time. Time is irrelevant- experience and confidence is key.

In order to make your visualizations real, meditate on them. You must

  • Feel
  • Think
  • Taste
  • Smell
  • See
  • Speak
  • Touch

…And play with thoughts of what you want. You must make your dreams so real that you forget what is “real” and what isn’t. I suggest spending some time meditating on what you want in life. If you want a mate, figure out what kind of person you want in your life and what you need to attract that person. If you want to change your career path, meditate on that. Meditate on the type of son, student, entrepreneur, or friend you want to be.

Visualize. Do what is right. Find your peace in playing with your imagination.

Phase 4: Trusting Your Intuition/Self-Conversation

To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, — that is genius.- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Meditate on it.

Your First Month of Meditation

  • Will change you.
  • Might hurt, be at times boring, or feel difficult.
  • Will empower you as a human being that acts from a frame of causation and not effect.
  • Will help you be more comfortable in your own being.
  • Will be tough at times and a high at others.
  • Will show you how you’ve always had infinite potential.

And so much more. Give it just one month and I assure you that you will never be the same.

If you found this material to be thought provoking and useful, please share it on Stumbleupon, Twitter, Facebook, and wherever it is you share with friends. And, by all means, let me know what you think in the comments section! If there is something you don’t understand, please let me know also and I’ll explain more.

-Juda

P.S. Here are some awesome resources to help you on this journey. Some are easier reads than others, but I’m confident you can handle it, since you wouldn’t be reading this if you weren’t a bad ass.

  1. Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill
  2. Self Reliance, by Ralph W. Emerson
  3. The Bhagavad Gita
  4. Tao te Ching, by Lao Tzu
  5. Unlimited Power, by Tony Robbins
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How to Sell Anything (30 days as a Bartender)

I love gently smashing my tongue with beer, its one of my many interests. Click here

So I chose to work at World of Beer for 30 days. I learned more about life then I did sitting in Sociology or Psychology courses. I didn’t intend to leave after a month, but it worked out like Arnold Schwarzenegger in the 80s. This post will cover a few bare naked parts of the experience. Come with me as I take off each article- starting with how you can learn to sell anything, including beer.

How to Sell Anything (Beer)

Stop reading this article right now.

I’m only joking. Don’t stop yet! AFTER you read and share with all your loved ones- then go outside and walk into a room and open a conversation with a group of people you’ve never met. Or start talking to the beautiful woman (or man) you’ve been eying. Go ahead. Do it.

It is doable. But how? Do you go in there and tell everyone how cool you are? Does the world have to accept you? Nope. It is actually ten times more effective to turn the spotlight on others. Don’t take my word for it (though you should). Instead, listen to what someone said about Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli:

“When I left the dining room after sitting next to Mr. Gladstone, I thought he was the cleverest man in England. But after sitting next to Mr. Disraeli, I thought I was the cleverest woman in England.”

Therein is the rub. Charisma is about making others feel good about themselves, not the other way around.

And what is Charisma founded upon?

Know Thy Self

Learn to trust your intuition. You know much more than you give your self credit for. You will find more peace when you look for it inside yourself. What does this have to do with selling? Everything. There are 3 main things necessary to sell a product, and they center around belief:

  1. In the product
  2. In the company you represent
  3. In yourself (your self).

There are different names for this beast: some call it intuition,  flow, infinite intelligence, the cosmic, the infinite, the real self. The label doesn’t really matter. If it tickles you, you can call it “Rodney Dangerfield”

Whether you are selling door to door telecommunications (like i did), selling beer, yourself, a service, a product- sell you to you first. Then people can’t help but be attracted to your self confidence.

Parkinson’s Law

Parkinson’s Law states that any task you have will be finished in the time allotted for it. If you’ve ever written a 15 page paper in 4 hours, then you know this to be factual. Here are some of the fun facts I learned at World of Beer:

  • 3 examples of each style of beer
  • Alternatives for each
  • Taste, color, body, mouth-feel, and smell of over 20 styles
  • Location, location, location
  • Breweries and interesting facts about them
  • The beer brewing process
  • All 500 plus beers
  • Juicy words to describe beers
  • And more…

In three days.

It is now cemented in my mind that anyone can learn more in three days then most people do in a year. Especially you.

So how do you do it? Other than the obvious: set S.M.A.R.T (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and timely) goals and take just the right amount of action.

But don’t limit your goals. Make them a little crazy.

Also, use…

Mnemonics

So what’s the lesson to be learned here? Set ridiculously short deadlines for your goals, and find a way to get it done. I did it for the basics of beer knowledge. I applied these principles into graduating from College, doing door to door sales for 6 months, etc. Imagine how much further you’ll go after you become aware of this.

Have you used techniques like this before? What’s your story. Comment and let us know how your journey is going.

 

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How to Get Recruiters to Email Resumes for You

How to get recruiters to email resumes for you

Nobody knows what happens to resumes after you submit them, but one thing is for sure- nobody seems to read them.

Or if they do, they don’t get around to calling you unless there was something about that 1 page that really stood out to them. I don’t know about you, but there is something about watching clothes lose their wetness in the sun that reminds me of what it is like to sit around waiting for someone to call me for a job interview.

Instead, follow up! Always follow up.

Jigsaw is awesome for this! This is a business directory that gives you the power to look up company employees, specifically, recruiters; and it allows you to narrow your search to say something like, “Facebook. Atlanta. Recruiters.” What does that have to do with getting them to look at your resume? With the following method I was able to get 6 employees from one company to email my resume to the recruiter responsible for the Atlanta location; and I received a phone call within an hour. I also did this with a few other companies and most of them contacted me within a day. Some emails, some phone calls. It was like having the fish jump onto my lap before I even left the house.

What did I do? I just emailed them. What did I say? The truth:

Greetings,

My name is Juda Borrayo, and I applied for the ________ position that was posted on the ________website.

I have been tracking down emails in order to reach someone at the company and your name seems to pop up in a lot of places. I’m hoping you are in charge of hiring but if not I would be grateful if you would point me in the right direction.

I submitted my information last week and I just want to make sure my materials were received. I also want to reiterate my interest in the position, and in _______; I think we would make a great match. And I would love to talk about it with you when you are ready to schedule interviews.

I have attached my Resume in hopes that this helps clarify who I am on paper. Thank you kindly for taking the time to read this email. I hope to hear from you soon.

Attentively,.

Juda Borrayo Tel: (###) ###-#### Juda.Borrayo@gmail.com | www.30daysintoit.com

Please don’t copy this verbatim- it should be your personality seeping through the words. Most of the people I emailed actually offered -or just went and did it- to email my resume to the main recruiter in charge of that position. Awesome!

Good luck. Let us know how it goes in the comments below.

-Juda

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How to Get a Job in 30 Days; by Using Branding and Social Media

There is something magical about a new tailored suit. It felt like the pin stripes and crisp blue tie were wearing me instead of the other way around. It was the third interview. I wasn’t even nervous. Maybe it is human nature but once you get to that stage your confidence level goes on acid ( not steroids, those effects are definitely more predictable). *

“I’m sorry to have to tell you but someone else was offered the position.” Oh dang, there goes my dream career; there goes my passion for working with a start up; there goes my opportunity to be in it from the ground floor.

For now.

As a result of this temporary rejection I ramped up my efforts and repositioned myself for success. And it worked.

That’s what this post is about: how to brand yourself so that employers will take a greater interest in you; how to enable yourself to stop blindly submitting resumes; how to be that needle in a haystack; how to get a job using branding and social media. How to sell you.

Branding

Personal Branding is about understanding your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats.

“The trouble ain’t that there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain’t distributed right.”- Mark Twain

You can impact what people see; it is simple really: emphasize your strengths with humility and work on your weaknesses in secret. One of the best ways to do this is by using social media to create brand “You,” as Dan Schawbel puts it in his awesome book called Me 2.0. I highly suggest his book on how to build a powerful brand to achieve career success.

Steps to Branding Yourself

  1. Buy your own domain name. You can use www.Judaborrayo.com as a basic template or imitate the blogs that you most read. Why? Because you read them for their “expertise.” Your favorite bloggers are probably excellent marketers. No need to recreate the wheel.
  2. Use social networks like LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter to boost your brand. More on that later.
  3. Upload/Link to any related projects that you have completed; whether a school project, internship, or a backpacking trip, etc. So long as it shines light on your accomplishments or strengths. And be specific: “I worked at a restaurant” sounds like you watched people eat ribs all day; instead use numbers and define what you mean by the word “multitasking,” on your website, social networking accounts, traditional resume, and online resume.
  4. Showcase how you have lead others. If you are looking for a job worth having then you will probably be leading in some way. Make clear your experience, but don’t boast; do mention accomplishments; do put credit where it is due. Few things are accomplished alone.
  5. If your job calls for being creative, be creative. Don’t send in a plain resume. Don’t expect to stand out by sitting down.
  6. Always, Always, Always write with your own voice. Express your personality. If you think employers won’t like your personality- work on your character. Seriously, do it now. And Read this.

Sharpen your writing skills

Good writers tend be good thinkers, and good thinkers create ideas that get written about.

How do you improve your writing skills? It won’t happen from watching big brother 3 times a week or sitting around reading comic books.

My friend, you must read and write to get better at writing. Benjamin Franklin actually had a system for this- a system I highly suggest- but for now, just read the following book:

The Elements of Style, by William Strunk and E.B. White.

This book will teach you how to follow the rules of writing, but even better, it will illuminate the right times to break them. For effect.

And at under 100 pages, I know you can push through it.

Curious about how the man on the hundred dollar bill did his thing? Read his autobiography or check out this article called, “How Ben Franklin Learned to Write.”

Anyways, back to how to get the job you want (and qualify for).

Do the work for recruiters

Create documents that paint a portrait of who you are, and make it easy for employers to get to know you before they get to know you. What you will need:

  • A resume that is clear: one that is verb/results oriented and can be slightly tailored to each employer or role.
  • A cover letter template that reflects exactly (honestly) what the job you qualify asks for. Do not exaggerate; do not lie about what you did- it will come back and bite you in the ego.
  • Multimedia that looks professional, for your social media accounts, and pictures for your site that represent your beliefs. If you are a calculated risk taker, upload pictures of you skydiving or cave diving. If you are strongly detail oriented, then perhaps you should reveal video of a project you worked on that was recognized for its complexity. If you are an awesome public speaker, then upload a speech. You get the idea…
  • A WiseStamp E-mail signature – This will allow you to leave a signature after every email. You have the ability to link to your social networking accounts, website, email, and phone number. Why not use that to your advantage?

Always emphasize your strengths and how you can impact that companies bottom line. Allow them to see that you are an awesome resource- that you will help them be more profitable.

Know where to look for jobs

You can save a lot of time if you simply eliminate the 80 percent of places that tend to be saturated with people submitting resumes in a manner that resembles someone who can’t see.

Monster might work for you. Career builder may be your messiah. I really don’t know where you may find that dream job, but I have found that using these websites has never led to even a phone call for me.

My suggestion is to use other resources, such as your College’s career website, LinkedIn, Twitter, or even Indeed.

I suggest LinkedIn as your primary method of searching because:

  • You can paint your resume on a beautiful canvas that is easily accessible
  • You can network sinfully
  • You can search for jobs in specific fields, locations, etc.
  • You can research recruiters
  • You can learn what the requirements are and truthfully customize your documents to fit those needs

Twitter is also a great tool for finding job openings and contacting those with influence. I suggest using http://twitter.com/#!/search-home to search for keywords like “Social Media Jobs” or “Brazilian Bikini Model Masseuse.”

If you went to College, use your schools career website. The employers that submit jobs to them are probably looking for alumni from your school. I actually acquired my new job after I applied and followed up through FSU’s Seminole Link career site. (#winning)

**note: remember the goal is to create a brand; to make yourself memorable; to express to others who you are AND who you want them to see- so make sure that you are consistent with what you post in your social networks, and be sure to create a brand around it.

My brand is a constant work in progress, but feel free to imitate some of it with hopes of surpassing anything I’ve done.

Another great resource for researching jobs

Head over to this website and you can save tons of headaches and have a better time connecting with the employees and employers of the companies you are interested in.

Glassdoor is an incredible website where employees anonymously upload salary information, steps to the interview process, and reviews of the company. You can learn what kind of questions to expect, how things are run at the company, and it allows you to confidently negotiate your salary.

An oldie but goodie

Awesome talk from branding King, Steve Jobs.

Good luck my friend

The next step is the interview process. If you want some information about that, just let me know and I’ll sit down and make notes of what I do. I am way too comfortable in 9 out of 10 interviews that I tend to sit in on- probably more than I should, but that helps me stay focused and sincere.

But anyways, I’ve got to go back to roaming around Atlanta and reading sales books. I was recently hired to do door to door B2B sales (just look at you, Juda! Already a pro in using acronyms!) Once I start working, my next goal will be “mastering” door to door sales in 30 days. And by “mastering” I don’t mean I’ll be a Zig Ziglar in 30 days. I hope to learn more from door to door sales than I can imagine.

Do you have any questions about this blog post? Are you looking for more advice on a particular aspect of the job search process (especially related to using social media), then feel free to post it in the comments. Also, suggestions are more encouraged than showers.

Thank you for reading.

“The ability to perceive or think differently is more important than the knowledge gained.”- David Bohm, American Physicist

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*In case someone took this literally: I have neither taken LSD nor steroids. I only do PCP and whippets.***

*** In case my sarcasm was not evident: I have never even seen PCP or done anything with a whip-cream can other than derive deliciousness for my ice cream of choice. Usually the Blue Bell brand.

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